Friday, December 5, 2014

2 Commandments to See Positive in Every Negative Situation

According to Dr. Wayne Dyer, squeezing an orange gives orange juice because that is what is inside. Similarly, when you are being squeezed or pressurized, what comes out it what is within. He further says that if you do not like what is within, it is possible to change it with thoughts. We all tend to encounter negative situations in life but that does not mean that we should keep taking and thinking about them negatively. Criticisms, rejections, insults, and unfavorable work outcomes are all negative situations, the ones that no one likes. The good news is that we can overcome these negative situations by focusing on the positive part. Every coin has two parts; similarly, every situation has both positive and negative. If you focus on negative, you simply welcome weaknesses. On the other hand, focusing on positive unlocks opportunities and solutions. Here are the two commandments for focusing on positive in every negative situation. Negativity is Bad, Negative Person is Not! This is the first rule to keep in mind while dealing with negative people who are often believed to block success or set achievements. In reality, no person is bad; it is the negativity or wickedness in her or him that is bad and needs removal. Therefore, when you hear criticisms or insults about your own self or others, try to find how much truth exists in them. In case of lack of evidence, it is better to ignore them; otherwise, take them as warnings to improve! We All Have Weaknesses! The second rule is based on the fact that is no one is perfect in this world. Mistakes happen repeatedly and each time, it is our duty to overcome them so that they do not repeat again. No matter what the outcome may be, a wise person will always learn from the mistakes and move further such that they are avoided.

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